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Why Children Choose Homosexuality.

Posted on behalf of Martin Bobinac


I would like to start/or join a discussion on why children choose homosexuality. I have researched this and feel I have some incites. By choose, I mean I exclude those who from early on have felt or thought for sure that their souls were one sex and their bodies another. In this new arena of alternate life style acceptance, perhaps a different approach to counseling might help to offer help to some. What am I getting at ? OK ! Firstly n the 80's a study was done on some animals. They were placed in a large cage with ample food & water and allowed to reproduce till they were so overcrowded they were crawling over one another. In a short while 40% of the population started engaging in homosexual sex as a survival tool' (true story). And these were rats who supposedly can't make logical decisions. My point being that there are too many factors in modern society which create deviant behaviour (non-mainstream-harmful or harmless). Prison systems that forbid normal sexual contact  turn young abused offenders into future sexual predators. Our puritan leftover morals about acceptable punishment for crimes is exactly what is to blame for the fact that sex-crimes of all natures are becoming,(in America ;where I live) so common they don't even make the news. Some prisons allow conjugal visits but the vast majority of prisoners aren't married. We grow vipers; turn them loose and then complain about snakebite. Sex-ed classes in schools need to loose the 18th. century mind-sets and get 21st century information to explain the lethal negative mental programing that is propagating and encouraging the latest;"whatever works for you" social attitudes. And as to why---because it's easier to allow / do nothing / believe things are beyond fixing than to get off our collective butts and find answers and implement them. One real idiot phrase was coined by a former 1st. lady (presidents wife); it was to "Just say, NO !" Oh-yah! That always works with troubled adolescents..We still treat mental illness with rattles /drums and inscence; incarceration / mind-dumbing drugs / telling the victims to pray about it don't work. No better than lobotomy and shock therapy did in the 50's. If a person doesn't believe they are deaf or thinks it's normal we can never convince them to seek a hearing aid. That said, lets try this ... If we could get some famous athletes or actors to speak out and say the words; "Gay isn't bad but it isn't normal. Blind / dyslexic / or downs syndrome isn't evil but it severely limits a person. Why do gays have the highest percentage of suicides? Stick to the science and the psychology and forget about old testament condemnations. The kids don't believe in GOD so why should HIS opinions matter to them...I know I'm asking for help moving a mountain with teaspoons but we have to start somewhere.  If a few famous folk would stop being politically correct and get on Twitter & Facebook and say;"Hey, listen up! Yer being had! Studies prove 70 / 80 % of gays lead unhappy lives!" Maybe we can counter some of the pro-libertine propaganda kids get ..When every Movie, TV show, even cartoons, has a happy, socially acceptable gay couple more decent than the characters on "little house on the prairie" were. I'm done ranting. In Christ ! w/hopes for a way to at least fill some sandbags before the flood!


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  • The gay and lesbian issue is largely due to an unbalanced family and society.  Things are out of order and not functioning very well.  Much of this is caused by Satanic influence and drugs.  God has to be brought back into it, like it or not. And the problems with the 'gay' life style needs to stop being whitewashed. It is a death style!  Kids need structure in life and stable families along with guidance..

    • I agree Steve, but along-side drugs there is the need to 'experiment' "what's it like".  I believe that single parent families also add to the issue.  The numbers, however, do not suggest that children who live in single sex homes are influenced by their family background, in fact it seems the opposite.


  • We can't judge though, we would only lie to ourselves and make ourselves into hypocrites (Romans 2:1). In God's eyes our sin is just as worthy of punishment as everyone elses.

  • I am still in high school and trust me you would not believe the amount of sin that goes on in people's lives DAILY. I'm talking about 14-16 year olds getting drunk, smoking weed everyday, having sex, fighting, talking about killing people, boys going out with each other etc. This stuff is normal to the people I live with. Never underestimate even the slightest sin; one leads to another and it reigns in all ages. Romans 1:28-32 is no exaggeration! 

    • I didn't think Preston was like that, it seems to me, and I have visited there countless times, that Preston was such a nice place.  Sure it has its fair share of offenders, but no more than places like Liverpool or Manchester, for its size.  Back in 206/7 the crime figures were below average, so I am surprised.


      • Honestly Derek, from what I know, everywhere is like that. I know it sounds like an exaggeration, but alcohol, drugs, sex, homosexuality and violence are very common in teenage life, no matter what part of the country. I don't get involved with any of it myself, but pretty much everyone I know my age sees this stuff as normal. I say this to show how it's not just homosexuality that is an issue, but there are things far worse that are becoming a norm in society.

        • Well Malachy, I thank God that we live down here in Cornwall, we have very few of those problems as yet, just a little around Camborne area.  This is the most Christian area I have ever found in the UK, we live in a small village on the Lizard Peninsula, and most of the village is involved in the Church.  We don't attend, because we observe the seventh day, but we passed the one of the churches at c12:30 a few Sundays ago, on our way to the beach, there were hundreds of people flowing out.  It took us about ten minutes to get past because of people wanting to talk to us.  It is great to just be able to stop in the street and have a spiritual conversation or discussion.  We have all heard about nurses being sacked for expressing their faith or praying with people in hospitals, no so here.  I have had so many conversations with both nurses, technicians and doctors here and they all feel free enough to express their faith.

          The ironic thing is that according to tradition (for which there are many evidences) Jesus visited Cornwall before He started His ministry, during the 'Missing Years'.  Joseph, Jesus' uncle, was a rich merchant who, according to some Roman documents, seemed to have traded in tin from Cornwall.  We have ancient crosses here, carved in granite, that are called 'Tunic Crosses' which bear the image of a youth dressed in the sort of tunic that they wore at the time of the first century.  This is the basis of William Blake's song 'Jerusalem' now favoured by the Women's Institute.



  • I, with tons of experience, agree wholeheartedly with your conclusions. I don't believe that most people, given the factual information about what living a "gay" life is really like, with all the emotional battery and physical degredation that goes on behind the scenes would rationally choose to live that way. They truly are just not healthy happy people living productive joyous lives. I know it's SO not politically correct, but personally I have a lot of pity in my heart for the gay man or woman who suffers thru that life, believing they are stuck in it forever when they are not.

  • You make some valid points here Martin, but the one element that seems to me to be missing, id the role of Satan and his bad spirits in this issue.  Satan has invisibly infiltrated the governments of this world, and the governments actually think they are doing good and right.

    • Yes ,I point out the aims of the army of darkness without mentioning the general. It's a cultural thing. My tribe believed that to say or write the name of an evil spirit might call it up.  An old mans leftover superstition... And the Demonic suggestions are quite visible. In this weeks "Time" magazine; the president of the Phillipines blames rape on women being to good looking to resist.(I wouldn't make this up). Proving your last statement.   This would be the same guy who has his secret police murder street sinners while providing a handy base for the heroin trade to ship from !  Babylon never died; it just relocated . May our Christ empower us to stand against the winds of evil....And on the previous item. Never heard about Cornwall although Jesus was certainly somewhere during those years.. 600 yrs. of Buddaism must have had placed monks in Alexandria & we know HE was in Egypt. Always wondered why both faiths placed so much emphasis on the same "Golden Rule". I taught Engish as a second language to refugees from Burma (Myanmar)..Conversion to them is simply putting a name to the unknown force who enlightened Gautama (Budda). The teaching is so similar. GOD does work in mysterious ways ! B/Blest ! <m>

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